Touched...

As i scanned through the news in fb, happened to see Amelia and Weihao's proposal video..
I was very touched.. and i even teared... How i wish i could have a chance to be like them... All their first times... their story will continue.. I remembered mine too... but my story will never have a chance to go on....

It's been awhile.. Wasn't in the mood to blog ever since I joined the Airforce.. Kinda restricted as to what I can post..
Been under extreme stress this period of time and losing my sleep every night. Thinking about work, family, and the love of my life. Truely understand the feeling of helplessness and heartache. I juz hope everything will be over soon...

You will always be in my heart..

Happy Birthday Mummy!!!!!

Effective?

Not too long ago, i attended this course at Civil Service College - Facilitating WITS Effectively. WITS stands for Work Improvement TeamS. I was taught how to make use of certain tools and techniques to facilitate projects, meetings, as well as problem solving. We were made to participate in the activities for experiential learning. Turns out really well for a person who tends to sleep in class like me... I managed to survive through 2 full days without sleeping in class, even though i was damn tired from the lack of sleep the night before. :)

Back to the techniques. Not sure if others have heard of these.. "Affinity Diagram", "Gantt Chart", "Effective use of Pareto Diagrams for analysis", "Relations Diagram", "Tree Diagram", "Arrow Diagram", "PDPC Chart", etc. These are very good and simple tools for planning and solving problems systematically and effectively. "Relations Diagram", my personal favourite. A relations Diagram is a Diagram where the problem and the factors are shown in short and concise words, and arranged so that all factors are linked in relation to each other and subsequently to the problem. Through this diagram, the root causes to the problem can be picked out and dealt with individually. Maybe i should try this... Never know, might help to solve my probs. :p (Problem statement: Strained Relationship) Will blog about this if succeed. Haha.

This sets me thinking as well. What do I want in life? Do I really enjoy my work? What do I want to achieve? What are my goals? From Primary sch to Secondary sch to Junior College to University to Working life... It's smooth-sailing for me... So much so that I haven't been thinking what I really want to do and achieve in life. I feel that I'm not exposed enough to know my options. I'm like a frog in a well. Sad... I desperately need to find meaning in my life...

Side Note:
Hmmm.... something I've learnt in the class... Kinda liked it alot.. :p

"If you ASSUME, you make an ASS out of U and ME"

Hahahahahahaha SSSOOooooo TRUE!

那就這樣吧 - 動力火車

Fond memories.... One of my all-time-favourites in my sec sch days...





不要哭了嗎　該哭的人是我吧
你都坦白愛上了他　我有什麼辦法
我也同意啦　既然妳提出想法
我們不要拖拖拉拉　就從明天開始吧

那就這樣吧　再愛都曲終人散啦
那就分手吧　再愛都無須掙扎
不要再問我　怎捨得拱手讓他
你走吧　到了記得要給我通電話

那就這樣吧　再愛都要 SAYONARA
再給抱一下　聞一聞你的長髮
不要再哭啦　快把眼淚擦一擦
這樣吧　再愛我有緣的話

快去把東西收拾一下
再耗下去都天亮啦
這裡的鑰匙你先留著吧　怕你有東西
假如你有東西忘了拿



无奈 失望 伤心 痛苦 不舍
又有什么用
那就这样吧
恋爱本该如此洒脱